Hey there, fabulous ladies! If you’ve ever felt guilty for taking time for yourself, or heard that nagging voice saying, "There’s work to do," "The kids need you," or "Self-care is too indulgent," then this post is for YOU! Let’s dive into why taking care of yourself is not not selfish. In fact, it’s one of the most important things you can do, especially for women 40 and up. Most importantly, you are worth it.

I definitely have - and then "pushed through" without taking care of myself. 🤷🏼‍♀️ 

Picture this: you’re on an airplane, and the flight attendant goes over the safety instructions. They stress the importance of putting on your own oxygen mask first before helping others. Why? Because you need to be okay to effectively help those around you. The same principle applies to everyday life. Self-care isn’t about being self-indulgent; it’s about maintaining your well-being so you can show up as your best self for the people and activities you love.

As we gracefully mature, both our bodies and our minds benefit from a little extra TLC. That's why self-care isn't a luxury—it's a necessity. It supports our physical health, emotional well-being, and even strengthens our personal and professional relationships.

Okay, enough of the pep talk! Let’s get into some easy, beginner-friendly ways to start prioritizing self-care like the rock star that you are.

Mornings are magic! Start your day with a simple routine that puts you first. This could be spending five minutes meditating, writing in a gratitude journal, or simply enjoying a healthy breakfast. Your morning ritual is about setting a positive tone for the day ahead, no matter how busy life gets.

Whether it’s a brisk walk, some light yoga, or a full-on dance party in your living room (we won’t judge!), moving your body helps boost your mood, improves sleep, and enhances your overall health. The idea is not to make exercise a punishment but something you look forward to.

Feed your mind and soul with activities that bring you joy. This might include reading a favorite book, crafting, or exploring a new hobby. Even spending time with friends who uplift you is a wonderful form of self-care. Remember, joy is not just a nice-to-have; it’s a must-have!

Delight your senses with natural aromas to create a calming environment. Aromatherapy can be as simple as diffusing essential oils while you relax or adding a few drops of a favorite scent to a bath. The soothing power of scents can quickly ease tension and help you reset. 

Learning to say 'no' can be empowering. Protect your time and energy by setting boundaries that align with your values. If saying 'no' feels difficult, start by saying it to smaller requests and work your way up. Your well-being is worth prioritizing.

Remember to hit the pause button and rest. Whether it’s getting a full night’s sleep, taking a power nap, or spending an evening unplugged from tech, rest is incredibly rejuvenating for your mind and body.

Simple, but oh-so-important! Drinking enough water and consuming a balanced diet is like putting premium fuel in your body. It helps with energy levels, digestion, and clarity of mind.

Ladies, self-care is not a one-size-fits-all approach. It’s about finding what works for YOU. Start small, and gradually layer on habits as they feel right. Your journey to wellness is a personal one, and there’s no rush. Remember, you deserve to feel amazing and nurture every part of your being.

If you feel like you are running yourself ragged? Or ... over-extending yourself?
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“Often we are reluctant to promote self-love mostly because we confuse it with selfishness. Since we are humans, we ought to have a healthy love for ourselves; it is from this fount that love flows out to others.” ~ Mason Olds

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Until next time, prioritize yourself a little bit more each day. You’ve got this!

Stay well, 💃🏼